As a Dutchman, this is how I saw the match vs Argentina, maybe I am biased, but nonetheless, here goes...
I will begin by saying the referee was blatantly awful, in many of his decisions on BOTH sides, which (I believe) caused a lot of frustration on either side as he slowly lost his grip on the match, as well as both teams. He gave out yellow cards like candy for small offences but kept his cards in his pocket for the obvious handball of Messi, and the kick in the dugout of the Dutch.
Yes, Argentina vs Holland is always a pretty heated match, but in my opinion it did not look like that in the beginning at all. The first half was respectful to each other, or at least, I seemed to think so.
He seemed in favor of Messi, too, who felt to the ground all the time at the slightest touch. The penalty given, was in my eyes, a punishment too, way too harsh.
Then the Dutch came back, and 10 min extra time was given, and the Dutch equalised in the dying seconds of the game. Deserved? No. Absolutely not. Was I happy? Off course! I think I woke my entire apartment block!
All Argentina players surrounded the referee at the extra time given, a trend this World Cup, that much ET... And then the referee seemed to lose more control, and seemingly influenced by the Argentines, whistled in favour of them all through extra time.
I cannot help to think Lahoz had a huge influence on the match, and how it went along...
Messi is done for me though, lost all my respect as I have never seen him like this before. Tirades against Weghorst and Van Gaal were a disgrace for a player of his stature...
My two cents...
Ps: I was happy to see Ronaldo cry, byebye now!